#81 The Right Time Is a Myth. Here’s Why You’re Really Delaying Change
You keep waiting for life to calm down, but that “right time” never comes. In this episode, Max Lowery reveals why your brain resists change and how to finally build food...
New podcast episode! Discover the 5 root causes holding you back from lasting weight loss change. Topics include emotional eating, identity habits, limiting beliefs, all-or-nothing thinking & silencing self-doubt. Break free from yo-yo dieting!
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If you’ve tried every diet and still regain the weight, the problem isn’t you.
It’s the root causes no meal plan ever touches.
In this eye-opening episode, Max and Shane unpack the five root cause problems that quietly drive weight gain, emotional eating, and self-sabotage—especially for women over 40. If you’ve been focusing on calories, steps, and workouts but still feel stuck, this is the missing piece.
You’ll learn the simple “iceberg” model: diets only address what’s above the surface (food and exercise). Real, lasting change happens below the surface—where thoughts, beliefs, and habits live.
What we cover:
The Big 5 Root Causes (and how they show up day-to-day)
Identity: “I’m the chubby one.” “I’m an emotional eater.” Your self-story drives your actions.
Limiting Beliefs: “It’s my hormones.” “I don’t have time.” “Nothing works for me.”
All-or-Nothing Thinking: Perfect all week → “blew it” → binge → start over Monday.
Emotional Eating: Using food for stress, boredom, reward, or escape.
Negative Self-Talk: The inner critic that kills momentum and confidence.
Why dieting makes all five worse over time—and what to do instead.
Practical fixes you can start now:
Redefine your identity and align small daily actions to it.
Spot and rewrite limiting beliefs with evidence-based reframes.
Trade perfection for progress (short workouts and imperfect meals still count).
Build non-food coping tools (walks, journaling, breathwork, strength training).
Mute the inner critic with self-compassion (name it, notice it, redirect it).
This episode is not another “try harder” talk. It’s a roadmap for sustainable weight loss that lasts through busy seasons, low motivation, and menopause shifts—without cutting the foods you love.
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Learn how to take control of cravings and lose weight without willpower, restriction, or giving up the foods you love. This free masterclass walks you through the proven 3-phase method to reset your metabolism, rewire your habits, and finally achieve lasting fat loss after 40.
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We’ll help you identify what’s keeping you stuck, create a personalised action plan, and assess to see if we can help you achieve lasting results. Click below to book.
The Podcast is where high-achieving women over 40 learn how to lose weight for good — without dieting, restriction, or obsession. Each episode tackles the real reasons you struggle with food, from emotional eating to identity shifts, and gives you the tools to create lasting change.
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